Love

Way out of LABYRINTH

regrets and flaws

She: You think I wanted to turn out this way!?
He: Hey? Coffee?
She: Nope! That’s dangerous! It keeps me up all night…

What is life about? Is it about counting the faux pas or the fatal blunders? Or calculating your belonging-ness level? Or is it about how accepted you are? Or whom are you dating? I guess rather than being stuck with the answers; we get bogged down with the questions only! Or better said, we are lured into
LABYRINTH OF LIFE.
Well; It’s just a great deal of little things!

The central idea of our mind map are the big things in our head. And why shouldn’t they be. We, humans are most obsessed with the so called BIG THINGS: Money, Health, Relationships. The Big and the Bad- few in a million are the ones that affect us the most rather than the little things that occupy most of the lives. By affect, I obviously mean REGRET-TING. Instead, I am asking you to use it as rule-of-thumb for a bright future.
We hear a lot of people saying “Life isn’t short” But it is. It is for both: those who are focused and who lost their focus.

People will come in your life as strangers, get close and simply leave as strangers again. Practically, an individual’s life is filled with distractions and passers-by. With the hope of finding purpose, we are merely lost. Lost in the LABYRINTH: Labyrinth of life with some small as well as big regrets. But why to be sad? Nobody is perfect. Everyone has REGRETS and FLAWS. Rather We become we because of our regrets and flaws.
I am not sure; who agrees and who do not. That’s totally a perspective. But these are some of the little things we tend to neglect:

  • Before waking up to world; wake up to yourself.
  • The craziness when you are in one of the best outfits of your wardrobe.
  • Believe me; no day can be better than FRIDAY.
  • That one special recipe of your MOM.
  • Not to forget the Food Trucks and the pancakes.

So, instead of finding hope in labyrinth of life; just find your own satisfaction level. Find your inner circle. Sit Down and talk to them. Mind it, by inner circle, I mean to calculate the risk and return. After all, our species need maximum return in minimum risk.
Be Optimistic. Be Flawsome. Be Imperfectly Perfect.
That’s not just the hope but the WAY OUT OF LABYRINTH..!:)

Love

LOVE – The Biggest OXYMORON

love-feelingIs the pour of feeling of original feeling hindering the eventual course of feeling?
Human race have had a great history of evolution. We, in the womb only start enduring part of our primary senses. Feel being the blend of them as it forms the driving force of human behaviour.
Feel? Feeling? Why do we feel? Is the connection LOVE?
We have been taught about plenty of things – Trust, Patience, Independence and more. In actuality, they did not fend us even from the caste/religion discrimination; then isn’t one of the most important lesson left being taught? Maybe, this is the reason we scout for people to help us even at such matured ages. Age; at which we are still struggling to define LOVE! Unmistakably, we have clearly misunderstood LOVE.

Love has occupied a pivotal role in our expectations and forth comings. Love songs, movies and novels have emphasized great hopes within us. Young folks wind up learning about sex, love from other peers, www, media or through exposure to pornography. Despite that, true love is believed to be in toxic, unmistakable; an obsessive attraction. Basically, even as an amateur, we learnt paradoxes and ironies. Being unrealistic and impractical or likely said ‘living in your world’ is most relatable to our generation particularly; as it helps us escape from real stuffs. And fantasizing about love forms the heart core of it. May be not told; but

Fantasies need to break up
Realities need to lace up
Making a tongue-in-cheek remark, each belief is making us realize that LOVE is the biggest enemy of its own.

We all crave for love at some point- the selfless, unconditional, natural love BUT is it not also selfish, conditional, painful too? If its that beautiful, then why are we taught to stay away from it? Is it the reason we are afraid to even think of falling for it? Hasn’t it created HASSLE?

I guess this is the time we must realize the trap we are into or simply put- LOVE CAN BE EASILY REPLACED BY OXYMORON. Some say: we choose whom we want to get hurt from? Is it that we are determining cost of love?

Plainly, there is a need to duck out of the bait given anonymously, sit back and enjoy giving it your definition and fall for it. Since this is sure, you cannot be sure about it later too. Stay tuned and have healthy LOVE LIFE.